We've spoken on the phone
and/or
you've verified my email address, QRZ.com is correct, and your comfortable that it's really me.
A good clue that it's me? I'll not accept money from anyone who does not understand what he is buying! Seriously, I'm too old and cranky to deal with your widow. We'll maybe if she's a wealthy trophy widow who like to go fishing... But otherwise, no!
73, Bob (the real ah7i em73ts Atlanta GA)